我知道我变漂亮了

even if we did surgery, deep down inside we know we are much more beautiful den any modification we did.

and NO i did not do any surgery. u tink i print notes ar!

(:

你没想像中爱我 — 石欣卉《一切完美》插曲/片尾曲

i love this song

about love

my colleague forwarded an email to me and it struck a chord in me.
its really true.
Just hw many ard us, including me, becomes lazy and complacent with love and the ones we love/ones who love us.
Many. !
i started reflecting on myself.
I am getting lazier n lazier.
last time i will want to scout ard and wear pretty clothes out on week ends.
not that i am looking scruffy n messy now. but it gets to a point im always in tee and shorts.
once the bf mention, eh hw come u always wear tee and shorts now already?
*bham* it struck me at the moment.
oops. where are all my snuggly jeans, short skirts, pretty dresses and lovely tops? nesting in my messy wardrobe.
not that i dun shop. in fact ppl who knows me know im a SHOPAHOLIC.
i love clothes, shoes and bags.
but where is my responsibility towards my relationship? the respect and importance i put into it?
i realise bf must have been feeling 'neglected'.
like i told val yest, smetimes once in a while, we need to dress for the benefits of our guys. to let them know we still care, and even if we have been to this place, doing the same stuff for like the N times. we will still want to look pretty to them.
to feel the sweetness of the times when we jus started dating.

Lets see what was forwarded to me and relate more to it:

爱的感觉，总是在一开始觉得很甜蜜，
总觉得多一个人陪、多一个人帮你分担，
你终於不再孤单了，至少有一个人想著你、恋著你，
不论做什么事情，
只要能一起，就是好的，
但是慢慢的，随著彼此的认识愈深，
你开始发现了对方的缺点，
於是问题一个接著一个发生，
你开始烦、累，甚至想要逃避，
its this way.
when its honeymoon period, everything you see everything he does, we will just find it so sweet, so nice.
but once the honeymoon period is over, we start arguing. we start thinking how come we din notice their shortcoming before that. why is he doing this, why is it she dun understand me.
its very common.
but at the same time, i feel that its through this stage whereby we know each other better. know our partner for who he/she is.

有人说爱情就像在捡石头，
总想捡到一个适合自己的，
但是你又如何知道什么时候能够捡到呢？
*她适合你，那你又适合她吗?
其实，爱情就像磨石子一样，
或许刚捡到的时候，你不是那么的满意，
但是记住人是有弹性的，
很多事情是可以改变的，
只要你有心、有勇气，
与其到处去捡未知的石头，
还不如好好的将自己已经拥有的石头磨亮磨，你开始磨了吗？
很多人以为是因为感情淡了，
所以人才会变得懒惰。
错！
其实是人先被惰性征服，
所以感情才会变淡的。
wheres our graciousness?
why cant we accept ppl for who they are, just like hw we want them to accept for who we are.

在某个聚餐的场合, 有人提议多吃点虾子对身体好， 这时候有个中年男人忽然说「十年前，当我老婆还是我的女朋友的时候，她说要吃十只虾，我就剥二十只给她！ 现在，如果她要我帮她剥虾壳，开玩笑！我连帮她脱衣服都没兴趣了，还剥虾壳咧！
*听到了吗？明白了吗？
难怪越来越多人只想要谈一辈子的恋爱，却迟迟不肯走入婚姻。
因为，婚姻容易让人变得懒惰。
如果每个人都
懒得讲话、
懒得倾听、
懒得制造惊喜、
懒得温柔体贴，
那么夫妻或是情人之间，
又怎么会不渐行渐远渐无声呢？
所以请记住：
有活力的爱情，
是需要适度殷勤灌溉的，
谈恋爱，更是不可以偷懒的喔！
maybe next time i wun eat so much prawns
:p

在某个聚餐的场合, 有人提议多吃点虾子对身体好， 这时候有个中年男人忽然说「十年前，当我老婆还是我的女朋友的时候，她说要吃十只虾，我就剥二十只给她！ 现在，如果她要我帮她剥虾壳，开玩笑！我连帮她脱衣服都没兴趣了，还剥虾壳咧！
*听到了吗？明白了吗？
难怪越来越多人只想要谈一辈子的恋爱，却迟迟不肯走入婚姻。
因为，婚姻容易让人变得懒惰。
如果每个人都
懒得讲话、
懒得倾听、
懒得制造惊喜、
懒得温柔体贴，
那么夫妻或是情人之间，
又怎么会不渐行渐远渐无声呢？
所以请记住：
有活力的爱情，
是需要适度殷勤灌溉的，
谈恋爱，更是不可以偷懒的喔！
the guy in the scenario is an asshole.
kudos to the 2nd guy.
i hope bf wun be like the 1st. thank god, nope for now.

*我们总说：我要找一个你很爱很爱的人，才会谈恋爱。
但是当对方问你，怎样才算是很爱很爱的时候，
你可能无法回答他，因为你自己也不知道。
*没错，我们总是以为，我们会找到一个自己很爱很爱的人。
可是後来，当我们猛然回首，我们才会发觉自己曾经多么天真。
假如从来没有开始，你怎么知道自己会不会很爱很爱那个人呢？
其实，很爱很爱的感觉，是要在一起经历了许多事情之後才会发现的。
或许每个人都希望能够找到自己心目中百分之百的伴侣，
但是你有没有想过在你身边会不会早已经有人默默对你付出很久了，只是你没发 觉而已呢？
所以，还是仔细看看身边的人吧！
他或许已经等你很久喽！
*当你爱一个人的时候，爱到八分绝对刚刚好。
所有的期待和希望都只有七八分；剩下两三分用来爱自己。
如果你还继续爱得更多，很可能会给对方沉重的压力，让彼此喘不过气来， 完全丧失了爱情的乐趣。
*所以请记住，
喝酒不要超过六分醉，
吃饭不要超过七分饱，
爱一个人不要超过八分
theres no right person for anyone.
onli being right together.
accept the flaws, appreciate the gd points.

那天朋友问我：到底该怎么做才算是爱一个人呢？
我笑著跟他说：其实每个人的爱情观都不一样，说对了叫开导，但就怕说错反倒变成误导。那就糟糕了！
*如果你也正在为爱迷惘，或许下面这段话可以给你一些启示：
爱一个人，要了解，也要开解；
要道歉，也要道谢；
要认错，也要改错；
要体贴，也要体谅；
是接受，而不是忍受；
是宽容，而不是纵容；
是支持，而不是支配；
是慰问，而不是质问；
是倾诉，而不是控诉；
是难忘，而不是遗忘；
是彼此交流，而不是凡事交代；
是为对方默默祈求，
而不是向对方诸多要求；
可以浪漫，但不要浪费；
可以随时牵手，但不要随便分手。

a relationship is never easy to manage., much less keep.
appreciate the ones around you.
show your love., let them see nothing's change much since dating days.
you still do love them.
its just that humans are lazy and complacent.

bf, i love you..
and i'll reflect on myself. to be more sweet and more understanding towards you.
: )

the golden boy is getting married

My all time fav is getting married.
Anyway it is about time. :)

yes baby i love it

yes crocs mary jane. suede alice.
i love it. comfy. and no not fugly!

:) baby i love it and glad u accepted the 4dollars
its better to be safe den sorry!!
:D

repeated!!!

its repeating itself over and over again.

:(

not good enough

its always about not good enough..

sem 1 finally OVER!!

lao niang wo pass my sem 1 papers with 'frying' colours.
yes 'frying' cause the results are not fantastic results but can see, can pass.

its been a stressed half year. just tat past 1.5mths of exams and waiting for results can kill liao.

im glad its over for 2 mths.

come oct 2008, sem 2 exams.

yes you heard me! exams again... haiiii....

but lao niang wo shi kai xin de!!

:D hiak hiak

not blogging?

hihi

miss me ?? :)

been feeling rather down recently. like this nagging pek chek feeling bugging me.
i m easily irritated and i want to scream at people.

hai.
i try not to. to swallow the pek chek feeling down.

i hope it'll pass...

p/s: i hope 3/7/2008 bears good news.
pray with me.