women & men

i am not an expert on women & men.
i guess all i know abt this two gender is by being a woman myself and getting involved with men in general.
oh ya, and i read man from are mars, women are from venus.
its a great book, not so much able to put in practical usage but for mutual understanding its not too bad.

i read an article in a magazine 2 days which strike me as really rather true.

this female reader wrote in abt her experience with her bf.
her relationship with her bf is more of 'on standby' kinda relationship.
she will set her time for him, wait for calls from him. to be there readily for him
often he will not call and even if he does so , it wil be like a few days once.
they will make an appt , but sometimes last min the guy will have something crop up and the meeting is cancelled.
and what does the female do? can only accept it.
she does the initiating of dates, the calling to see 'how is he' , and the waiting.
but the guy is just carrying on with his own life.
you never know if the gal carries any weight at all or not. obviously in this case, maybe not so.
many of u may say- wah this gal so stupid. the guy obviously is just happy come, not happy dun bother kinda man. what for waste her time.
BUT please stop and look ard you, how many of your gfs or maybe even urself is like this?!
i know i am in such a situation.
often i am the one who calls/dates and wait.
at times i get piss and vow not to call anymore, but one simple sms from HIM just makes me all soft and starts the whole cycle again.

the reporter has her views on this case report.
she said:
women when they are in love, they fall all over for the guy and fall on the guy (for some women). in this case, the guy knows that the guy matters more the gal den the gal matters to him. he mite feel SAD if the relationship ended , but often the gal will feel DEVASTATED. sadly this is the case.
men now in this society loves a good challenge, and NO , its not only abt their career. relationships also.
men tend to cherish women who is confident and independent. they dont like their women to whine and cling all over them. they feel suffocated. its like a burden. to care for at all times is just plain tiring to them.
whereas women who creates space for themself, gets this guys to call her willingly.
they will date her and ask her out.
the whole logic here is show interest as little as possible.
men love bitches.
yes its true
i ask a few of my guy frens, they actually prefer women who are harder to get.
they find the whole chasing after them process fun. for women who comes to them willingly, they will just take for granted.

i am not a bitch naturally.
often i let myself fall over the guy and just bruise all blue black when i land on an empty fall. wham bham!
why do guys take for granted women who care for them and love to go after woman who cant b bothered with them?
yes men love bitches but i think they are just 'fan jian'....
they like challenges...
geezz....
go then!
challenge ur own ability to charm, stroke ur ego and hope ur next 'prey' will fall on yr laps like a weening kitten.
JERKS!